Aren’t we all just trying to turn our lives into a cozy dream? Being cozy in the world today means feelings of safety and comfort. We deserve to feel these things, though the outside world makes that difficult, TBH. But when you are in the comfort of your home, you are in control and can curate a space that feels authentic and like a safe haven.
Think of this as the ultimate cozy girl starter pack. Carefully choose what fits into your budget and lifestyle and leave the rest.
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Cozy Girl in the Bedroom
Is there anywhere cozier to start than with the bedroom? Cozy room decor can transform your space from a simple bedroom to a cocoon of comfort an aesthetic. Here’s what we can add to the space for a major upgrade.
#1: Warm Lighting
One of the easiest and least expensive ways to add coziest to your room is to avoid overhead lighting and instead create pockets of light.
One source can be battery-operated string lights. Fairy lights are so dainty and magical. Target usually has great deals on them. Another one of my favorites is a Himalayan salt lamp. These lamps emit the most warm and beautiful glow.
#2: Fun Throw Pillows
These flower throw pillows are so freaking cute and aesthetic. I have one on my office chair. Go floral or botanical or choose whatever pillow fits your vibe.
#3: A Cozy Reading Spot
Think chunky knit blankets, a whimsical bean bag chair, floor cushions, a stack of books, a pretty pastel booklight… everything you need to create a place to escape from reality. Reading will take you far, far away. I love reading romance or romantasy to really get the hell out of here.
#4: Beautiful and Natural Bedding
Linen sheets are the ultimate luxury when it comes to bedding. I love West Elm for that. Or if you like buttery soft sheets, these are to die for. Slipping into them at night will feel like you’re staying at a 5-star hotel.
#5: Candles That Make You Happy
There are so many soy candle varieties and my very favorite thing to do is scour Etsy for bookish candles. You know, the ones that smell like your book boyfriend (Rhysand) or favorite queer hockey player (Ilya Rozanov). If you are a reader and didn’t know about this candle situation, yes, it’s true. You could type in nearly any popular book boyfriend or girlfriend and there will be a candle for them!
#6: A Cozy Desk Chair
Whether you have your own office space or use this in your bedroom (hello to my fellow cozy gamer girls), an ergonomic chair is important because us girlies need to keep our good posture. They don’t have to be ugly! This one is functional and comes in a few fun colors. I love the green!
#7: A Mushroom Footrest (Cat Friendly!)
One of my favorite pieces ever! This mushroom ottoman is the perfect blend of functionality and cuteness for your kitty.
#8: Fragrance Diffusers
Find a scent that feels you and make it your signature smell. One of my favorite brands is this salt & sea reed diffuser.
#9: Mushroom Lamp
Can you tell I love mushrooms? They make my aesthetic and cottagecore heart happy. Maybe you are similar, and so I present to you… the mushroom lamp.
#10: Aesthetic Slippers
We love a good pair of slippers. Now, stop buying boring ones and find a pair that fits your unique style and personality. I love a good checkered pattern, so these are a must for me. Budget-friendly!
Cozy Girl in the Kitchen
#11: Your Favorite Tea
Make tea by candlelight. The ritual of making a warm beverage is therapeutic in and of itself – the gentle sound of pouring a beverage into your favorite mug, the warmth from the steam, the comforting smells. Open your senses to the experience and be mindful of it all.
#12: Cute & Aesthetic Mugs
For your tea, you need cute and aesthetic mugs. There are endless options here but a few of my favorites: peeking kitty | soft floral | minimalist ducky
#13: A Frothing/Foaming Machine
With your own milk frother, you can make your favorite lattes and warm beverages at home. This has been a money-saver for me. You can also find a few fun flavored syrups from Marshals or TJ Maxx.
#14: Glass Jars
You can never have too many mason jars in all shapes and sizes. They are inexpensive and aesthetic! Perfect for iced beverages, overnight oats, yogurt parfaits…
#15: A Mug Organizer
If you want to display all your cute mugs, use a simple and clean mug organizer such as this one.
#16: Electric Kettle
No more waiting for the water to boil. This electric kettle is very efficient! I’ve had mine for years.
#17: Essentials for Hot Cocoa
Make a hot cocoa bar area, stocked with everything you need, from cocoa powder to mini marshmallows, or even some peppermint syrup.
#18: Make Your Own Matcha
If you love matcha, there are plenty of kits to make your own at home. This is another gentle ritual that can bring a moment of peace and mindfulness to your day.
#19: A Cute Apron
If you love to bake, consider investing in a cute apron. This is a nice way to romanticize the art of baking in your kitchen. A quick search on Amazon or Etsy will yield many beautiful results.
#20: Movies and Shows While Your Cook/Bake
Have you ever considered watching your favorite TV show or movie as you were baking or cooking? Set your laptop up in a area that is safely out of the way and play an episode of Gilmore Girls. It’s a little comfort that feels cozy.
Cozy Self-Care
#21: A Weighted Blanket
I love a weighted blanket, especially in the cooler months. Start with a lighter weight if you are new to them and work your way up as you find what feels most comfortable.
#22: A Hydrating Non-Comedogenic Moisturizer
Pamper your skin with an EWG-certified moisturizer. My go-to budget-friendly moisturizer is Honest Hydrogel Cream.
#23: A Silk Pillowcase
A silky pillowcase will feel like a dream when your head hit’s your pillow at night. It is a better option to keep your hair healthy.
#24: Eucalyptus in the Shower
One of the little luxuries that I love in life is a bundle of fresh eucalyptus hanging in the shower. It smells absolutely incredible and will feel like you are at the spa.
#25: A Hydrating Foot Cream
Before bed, slather on a hydrating foot cream before putting on your socks to keep dry skin away and your feet feeling their softest.
#26: A Bedside Journal
Journaling before bed can be very therapeutic. If you can get yourself in the habit, it can have a lot of mental benefits and bring clarity. Even if you start small! Just write down 1 or 2 things that made you happy that day. Or do a free write and jot down anything that comes to mind that you’d like to get out of your head.
I love visiting local bookshops for new journals. Support local businesses and find the perfect design for your mood.
#27: A Bathtub Tray
If you love taking baths, a tray like this is a must. It feels very luxurious, aside from being functional!
#28: Your Favorite Face Mask
A face mask can really leave you feeling pampered and your skin feeling supple. Don’t forget about them.
#29: A Rejuvenating Shower Gel
Do you have a specific scent you love to lather up with? LUSH makes some really great shower gels. Find your scent and you’ll look forward to hopping in the shower.
#30: Non-Toxic Nail Colors for Your Mood
Olive & June are my absolute go-to for nail colors that are gorgeous and last. Their mani system was worth it for me to do my nails at home rather than getting them done at the salon (saves me time and money).
Cozy Clothing
#31: Oversized Sweaters & Sweatshirts
There’s nothing cozier than an oversized sweater or sweatshirt. Etsy is my favorite for finding really cute and aesthetic sweatshirts (especially fandom related).
#32: An Oversized Graphic Tee That Feels Nostalgic
Graphic tees are so comfy and lived-in. I found this Reading Rainbow tee recently and it has become my favorite conversation starter while I am out and about.
#33: Fuzzy Socks
Is there anything better? You can find plenty of fuzzy socks in-stores or online. If you want socks that are very thick (but not fuzzy), I highly recommend these. I have stopped looking for the perfect thick socks!
#34: Matching Lounge Set
Cozy lounge sets seem to be all the rage and it is understandable why. Who wouldn’t want to look cute and matchy while being comfortable?
#35: House Shoes
If you want a step up from slippers (maybe a little more support and feel similar to shoes) then these are really nice. I feel a bit more put-together when I have these on.
#36: The Fuzziest, Cutest Slippers
These open-toe fuzzy slippers are so cute! Love these for spring and fall, when the mornings are a little chilly but warm up as the day goes.
#37: Silk Scrunchies
Silk scrunchies are a great choice to avoid hair breakage and damage. You can find so many aesthetic colors and choices on Amazon.
#38: Affordable Lounge Pants
I found these lounge pants years ago and I continue to go back to them because they are affordable, cute, and super silky.
#39: Wearable Blanket
Do you remember the Snuggie? It was a wearable blanket that was pretty “uncool” but joke’s on all those people because wearable blankets are entirely awesome and cozy.
#40: A Plush Robe
There’s nothing quite like a plush new robe that lasts for years and becomes very well-loved. It’s a must-have item for every cozy girl.
Cozy Hobby & Lifestyle
#41: Aesthetic Adult Coloring Books
It’s the most relaxing hobby for a homebody. Any coloring book by Coco Wyo is the very best and coziest. They are so aesthetic. This cozy corner one might be my favorite so far.
#42: Adult Coloring Markers & Holder
There are so many markers for these coloring books out there. These are very popular but are not always in everyone’s budget. I find that these are an affordable alternative. Here’s a cute aesthetic marker holder, too.
#43: A Nintendo Switch with Cozy Games
If it’s in budget, a Nintendo Switch 2 is the ultimate cozy hobby. As a gamer girl myself, I am completely obsessed with Animal Crossing: New Horizons (I have an Instagram account dedicated to it). A few cozy games to consider: Animal Crossing, Pokopia, and Tiny Book Shop
#44: A Kindle & Cute Cover
If you are a reader, a Kindle is a great investment, especially if you are a Kindle Unlimited kinda girlie (so many lesser-known indie authors there!) I love the Kindle Paperwhite best. The best part of a Kindle is choosing an aesthetic case to go with it. I like this one because the back is clear and I love to decorate mine with bookish stickers I collect from Etsy.
#45: An Herb Garden
Why not start an herb garden on your deck or windowsill? There’s nothing more cozy and quaint than using your own homegrown herbs while cooking.
#46: Crossword Puzzles & Word Searches
A classic cozy girl hobby is a simple crossword or word search puzzle. Keeps your mind sharp, too.
#47: 1000 Piece Puzzles
When is the last time you sat down with a 1000 piece puzzle? Start one on a mat or tabletop and slowly work on it day after day. Best paired with a mug of tea and a rainy night.
#48: LEGO Sets for Adults
LEGO isn’t just for kids. They have gorgeous adult sets, like these botanical sets!
#49: The Art of ZenTangle
Relax your mind and ease your anxieties by learning the art of ZenTangle. This is a wonderful form of art therapy.
#50: Hand-lettering
Hand-lettering is an artform that can be relaxing and therapeutic while also building a really neat skill.
Cozy Girl Connected
#51: Gentle Gaming Apps
If you like games on your phone, opt for ones that are brain-boosting, such as Crossplay or NYT Games (Wordle, Pips, Connections, and Strands are all free!)
#52: ASMR Keyboard
If you love using a keyboard with the most brain-tingling clicking sounds, this one is unreal.
#53: Cute Mousepad / Wrist Rest
Adorn your desk with a cute aesthetic mousepad or wrist rest. I love this leafy one.
#54: Cute Headphones & Holder
Get the cat ear headphones. Why not. They are so freaking cute and we deserve to indulge our 15-year old self.
#55: An Aesthetic Desktop Background
I love changing out my desktop background to fit my mood, current obsession, or the season. There are plenty of free background websites, so don’t forget to browse.
#56: Follow Aesthetic Instagram Accounts
Keep from doom-scrolling by curating a feed with only the accounts you enjoy seeing. I love following aesthetic accounts that make me feel good.
#57: Cute Phone Case
Stay aesthetic and on trend with a functional yet cute phone case. I really like Otterbox, but be sure to find one that is compatible with your phone.
#58: Stickers for Your Laptop
If you are a sticker girly like me, don’t forget to shop Etsy and browse for stickers that make you happy. This is a great way to make a statement. Stickers for causes are great, or just stickers for your favorite books and TV shows.
#59: Insight Timer App
My therapist shared this app with me and I have fallen in love with it. Perfect for a daily dose of meditation and relaxation.
#60: Cozy Girl Podcasts or Audiobooks
While cleaning, why don’t you listen to a podcast or audiobook? A great way to expand your mind or escape reality while you are getting shit done. I am really in love with Amy Poehler’s podcast these days (Good Hang).
Cozy Girl Mood & Atmosphere
#61: A Nostalgic Playlist for a Bad Day
Turn around a bad day with a nostalgic podcast. I find that listening to music that made me happy when I was a teenager makes me feel really carefree and joyful. I highly recommend it.
#62: Cozy ASMR Channels
If ASMR is your thing (like me), play a cozy one in the background as you work or before bed. I love ALB in whisperland ASMR. She is my ultimate cozy girly go-to.
#63: Disco Mushroom
Yes, another mushroom product that turns any room into a glimmering sea of happiness when the sun hits it just right.
#64: Ambiance Rooms on YouTube
There are A LOT to choose from on YouTube. I will usually type in something like “spring morning ambiance” or “morning coffee ambiance room.” You choose your vibe and choose the one that feels right. It is such a lovely way to add a soundscape to your living space while you exist and putter around.
#65: Electric Candles and Tea Lights
While real candles are nice, sometimes it isn’t the safest option for those of us who have kitties or pets. Don’t sleep on electric candles and electric tea lights for cozy lighting. I love these flameless candles that come with a remote for ease of use.
#66: Airy Curtains
Airy curtains can make a space feel cozier and more romantic. Watching them move with the breeze is so satisfying, so open the windows on a warm breezy day… everyone could use more fresh air.
#67: Chill Lofi Beats
This is my go-to while I am working or in the middle of writing. It’s so restful and undistracting. My favorite of all time is this 90s lo-fi mix.
#68: Starry Projector
A starry or galaxy projector is a stunning way to bring a whole new vibe to your room when the sun goes down.
#69: Fireplace Videos
Similar to an ambiance room, but exclusively a fireplace. This is the coziest setting for the autumn and winter months! Simply search “fireplace ambiance” on YouTube and choose whichever speaks to you.
#70: Small Projector for Cozy Movie/TV Nights
If you have the means, investing in a projector could elevate your cozy movie and tv nights. This is especially fun when you have friends over.
Little Luxuries for Cozy Girls
#71: A Wicker Basket for Laundry
It feels very cottagecore and can add a little bit of whimsy to your day. Pretty things make me happy, and maybe they make you happy, too.
#72: Calming Linen Sprays
An aromatic pillow spray adds a little bit of luxury to your bedtime routine. Lavender is especially wonderful and calming.
#73. Make Pancakes Every Sunday
Make Sunday breakfast or brunch a special day with pancakes every weekend. I’ve done this with my family since my kids were toddlers and we still have this tradition to this day. It always feels special!
#74: Plant Babies!
Become a plant mama! Buy a few houseplants to care for and to add some life to your space. Not only do they look beautiful, but they help purify the air in your home.
#75: And Don’t Forget the Cutest Pots for Your Babies
Etsy has some of the cutest pots I ever did see. Or this adorable bookish pot on Amazon.
#76: Cute Sensory Slime
Sensory girlies, rise up!! If you love slime, there are so many options available on Amazon. I have also heard really good things about the brand PeachyBbies.
#77: Cute Fidget Toys
If you love a good fidget toy, you are in good company. This keyboard clicker is aesthetic and discreet.
#78: Cozy Throw Blankets
A home is not complete without a basket full of the coziest throw blankets. All different sizes, weights, and materials. HomeGoods always has a great selection.
#79: A Window Birdfeeder
One of my favorite investments over the years has been a window bird feeder. They are absolutely adorable and fascinating to watch up close. This was really nice in the winter months when I was missing the outdoors. Cozied up with a blanket and watching the cardinals enjoy a meal… cozy perfection.
#80: An Afternoon Pick-Me-Up
Big fan of little treats over here. Have something to look forward to in the afternoon when you have a lull in energy. It could be a coffee or tea. For me, it is an iced cacao or piece of dark chocolate chocolate.
Cozy Girl in the World
#81: Birdwatching
Get in your backyard or local park to just sit still and watch/listen to the birds. Birdsong is one of the most peaceful sounds in the world. This practice will make you slow down and appreciate the little things happening in the natural world around you.
#82: Go Thrifting
Curate the home of your dreams on a budget. Thrifting is not only fun and exciting, but you never know what you will find at a discounted price.
#83: Enjoy a Warm Beverage at a Local Spot
Get out of the house and head to a local cafe or a new spot you’ve been wanting to try. Sip a beverage and people watch.
#84: Take a Local Pottery Class
Or any creative class that interests you. For me, that is pottery! Making something from your bare hands is a beautiful and cozy project to take on.
#85: Take a Joyride with Cozy Oldies
Put the windows down and drive around backroads listening to some cozy oldies (or just nostalgic music!) Instant mood booster.
#86: Visit a Local Farmer’s Market
Support local businesses and farms by going to the farmers’ market. There is nothing as tasty and fresh as food that has been harvested in your own town.
#87: Visit an Art Museum
Discover local art museums in your neighborhood. Sometimes, these can be really inexpensive to visit and very rewarding.
#88: Watch the Sunset
Bring a blanket and maybe a few snacks. This is as cozy and peaceful as it gets. Watching the sun sink below the horizons is absolutely mesmorizing.
#89: Go to Trader Joe’s for Fresh Flowers
Trader Joe’s is known for their budget-friendly blooms and bouquets. Treat yourself to fresh flowers for your table every few weeks or every once in a while, as budget allows. They will make you smile every time you see them.
#90: Walk Barefoot on the Grass
This is free and easy. Find grass. Walk barefoot. Ground yourself.
Seasonal Cozy Girl
#91: Plant Bulbs for Spring Blooms
Give yourself something to look forward to in the springtime by planting bulbs in the autumn. Hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils are great ones to start with.
#92: Plant a Lilac Shrub
This is the shrub that keeps on giving in my own yard. We planted one years ago and they are not only beautiful, but they make the yard smell wonderful and I love cutting blooms to bring inside.
#93: Go on a Picnic
When weather allows, make a meal special by taking it outdoors and enjoying on a blanket. This can be as simple or as elaborate as you want it to be.
#94: Go Beachcombing
If you are close to the ocean, visit the beach to collect interesting shells and sea glass. Treasures and trinkets from the ocean can be collected and displayed at home. Very cozy decor indeed.
#95: Stop and Listen to the Crickets and Cicadas
Take a moment of silence in your yard to listen to the song of the insects. This is a great mindful moment.
#96: Go Berry Picking & Then Bake
In the summertime, visit a farm to pick berries (or peaches or whatever fruit they offer where you are) and go home to bake something delicious. Summer hygge at its finest.
#97: Build a Bonfire
Safely! But a bonfire is one of the coziest bits of summertime. S’mores are a plus.
#98: Bask in the Sunshine
Lather up with SPF and then enjoy 10-15 mins doing nothing but basking in the sunshine. Instant mood lifter.
#99: Wear Dresses in the Summer
If you love dresses, don’t save them for special occasions. Summer dresses are flowy, comfortable, and romantic, even on a day with nowhere to be.
#100: Peep Fall Foliage
If you live somewhere that showcases autumn in all its glory, remember to stop and enjoy the foliage. The fall is so cozy already, but stunning landscapes and the changing of leaves really adds to the ambiance.
